How do you pick up the pieces once your heart has been shattered by the one you loved unconditionally? It feels as if you can’t breathe, think and live when that person is no longer in your life. You tend to go back to certain situations and saying to yourself “if only I…”.
Now lemme tell you something, that “WHAT IF” game is DANGEROUS. You can spend the whole day thinking what if you did this or you did that. The issue with playing this game is there ARE no do overs. It’s happened. You can’t change what’s happened, you can only learn how to NOT be a fool again and put yourself in a situation that will hurt you all over again.
Don’t let the ruined relationship make you bitter. Let that hurt go. It saddens me that people will let their past relationships deter them from having a beautiful and fruitful relationship.
Yes, that person hurt you, BUT you can’t blame the new person for what the old person did. Love again. Allow yourself to feel loved. Love is truly dope. There will be good and bad days, but strive to have more good than bad days. It
might WILL be hard, but it’ll be worth it. At the end of the day we want to be happy with the one we truly love and cherish, that last missing puzzle piece.
Picking up the pieces won’t happen instantly, just pay attention to how both parties handled certain situations. Take care of yourself. Love yourself. Spend time and get to know YOU better. Eventually things will get better, just take baby steps day by day. The only way that your heart will get better is with time. Easier said then done, I KNOW, but trust me you WILL live without that person who shattered your heart. Flourish and emerge from the ashes a better person. Til then, if you want to cry…let it OUT…but understand there IS an end to the pain. Don’t harbor all that anger, eventually forgive them.
It’ll be worth it, promise.
Play this on repeat and cry if you want, I won’t judge you