Here at VixenVarsity we have a strict policy of no celebrity gossip, BUT that doesn’t mean that I don’t open up a website and read every morning. I visit NecoleBitchie.com every day. This morning I read her latest post. A Message About Living Instead Of Just Existing and I just felt like Necole was talking to me.
Here are some standout passages from Necole, that I felt compelled to share.
I also want to remind you that this is my baby. And when you have a baby, and you nurture it and watch it grow, it’s hard to let go and let someone babysit for you, even if it’s for a few days while you are on vacation. This is why the site hasn’t been updated in 7 days.
In 2014, I hope to learn to stop babying my baby.
There has to be some sort of balance and sometimes you do have to take a break to gain some perspective. That’s with any path you choose to follow career-wise.
It all comes down to: Are you living life or are you only watching others live their lives?
Always remember that you can choose what you want your legacy to be, and once you figure that out, whether it’s tomorrow or 10 years from now, you will start to move a little differently and live in your legacy. I always ask myself, “How do you want people to feel about you when you leave the room?” I do care whether or not the site is respected. But in climbing the mountain of my personal journey, I’ve learned it’s not all about the money and advertising dollars either. It’s so much more fulfilling when you are following your heart and reaching the destination is that much more exciting.
There are other great passages on NecoleBitchie.com that I want you all to check out.
Like I said early, I felt as if Necole was speaking to me. I have had this little seed of creating this site implanted in me for some time. Being an adult entertainer who wanted to create something like this, separate from my adult life, was met with nothing but discouragement. Not just from outsiders, but from myself…that little voice inside. I have heard that no one is going to come to the site because they want to see you as XYZ and not ABC. I followed my heart, my passion and just because I am an adult entertainer does NOT mean that’s all I have to do for the rest of my life.
The seed that I had inside of me was watered by DMVixen who believed in me more than I believed in myself. She told me that I have a voice and don’t let anyone stifle my voice. Vee (Vixen) believed in me, my dream and that right there amongst a crowd of naysayers, there was someone who believed in me.
This website is my journey, it IS my legacy, it’s what I have so much passion in. I have put aside the adult side to work on this. Just as Necole Bitchie wrote in that post, up at 4am working til 12am and doing it all over again. That is me, that is the work that I am putting into this website. I am proud.
This IS my baby, I will nurture this being and watch it grow into whatever is planned for VixenVarsity.com
I doubt Necole will read this blog, but I just wanted to thank her for her amazing words that reached out and spoke to me.
Thank you, Necole.